I choose what feels good and I leave him to choose what he wants

I choose what feels good and leave him to choose what he wants. I don't waste time saying, "He should choose differently." Instead I say, "He is choosing what he is choosing; I'm choosing what I'm choosing; and I'm feeling good while choosing it." I let that be the end of it. He might adore me, he ...might hate me -- and none of it has anything to do with me. Abraham-Hicks