Monday, April 26, 2010
Saturday, April 10, 2010
It takes one (me) to tango and that's more than enough
It would be nice that my partner
I am exhilarated to know that it is not necessary for my joy and my happiness. I like knowing and understanding that the only necessary thing for me to practice is my own individual thoughts of love. Which move me into the Vortex where the whole of me is, as well as all I want, need and desire.
So...
I give up the need to be confused
I give up the need to resent
I give up the need to be irritated
I give up the need to be annoyed
I give up the need to fear his reaction/opinion
I give up the need to control/manipulate him
I give up the need to punish
I give up the need to push against his ways of being, doing, speaking and behaving.
I give up the need to resist his choices, wants and needs.
And so it is.
I now don't know how I praise, see positive aspects, make lists of things I appreciate, I just know I do and I feel fulfilled, satisfied, joyful, exhilarated, loving, loved, and lovable. I love that now love flows through me and it feels fantastic.
- looks at me and
- understands me and
- loves me and
- accepts me exactly as I am and
- approves of me but
I am exhilarated to know that it is not necessary for my joy and my happiness. I like knowing and understanding that the only necessary thing for me to practice is my own individual thoughts of love. Which move me into the Vortex where the whole of me is, as well as all I want, need and desire.
So...
I give up the need to be confused
I give up the need to resent
I give up the need to be irritated
I give up the need to be annoyed
I give up the need to fear his reaction/opinion
I give up the need to control/manipulate him
I give up the need to punish
I give up the need to push against his ways of being, doing, speaking and behaving.
I give up the need to resist his choices, wants and needs.
And so it is.
I now don't know how I praise, see positive aspects, make lists of things I appreciate, I just know I do and I feel fulfilled, satisfied, joyful, exhilarated, loving, loved, and lovable. I love that now love flows through me and it feels fantastic.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
What does it feel like now that my feelings are not depended on my partner's behavior
I feel open
I feel free
I feel relaxed
I feel at ease
I feel frisky
I feel like skipping
I feel joyful
I feel untrapped
I feel happier
I feel sure of myself
I feel more confident
I feel more alive
I feel that the tension has eased
I feel no more pressure
I feel light, so light I could float away
I feel more creative
I feel glad about my life
I feel satisfied
And so be it.
Thank you.
I feel free
I feel relaxed
I feel at ease
I feel frisky
I feel like skipping
I feel joyful
I feel untrapped
I feel happier
I feel sure of myself
I feel more confident
I feel more alive
I feel that the tension has eased
I feel no more pressure
I feel light, so light I could float away
I feel more creative
I feel glad about my life
I feel satisfied
And so be it.
Thank you.
The behavior of my partner is not responsible for the way I feel
The behavior of my partner is not responsible for the way I feel says Abraham Hicks.
"It does not matter if I have excellent excuses for the negative emotions and negative thoughts - they still equal my point of attraction". Abraham Hicks, The vortex, where the law of attraction Assembles all co-operative relationships.
I have had and have been having excellent excuses for the negative emotions and thoughts, I have experienced and have been experiencing in response to my partners behavior. As of now I am open, eager, determined to set aside all opposition and consider the idea that he is indeed not responsible for my feelings and that I have control of my feelings regardless of his behavior.
I open myself emotionally and in any other way that will be helpful to accepting the idea that the behavior of my partner is not responsible for the way I feel.
I am willing to see and be convinced that his behavior is not actually responsible for the way I feel.
I now accept that the behavior of my partner is not responsible for the way I feel.
Even though I have all along been feeling, thinking and behaving in a way that indicated that my partner's behavior is responsible for the way I feel, I choose to love and accept and forgive myself anyway. I choose to release and let go of the shame, the embarrassment and the guilt. I release and let go of the helplessness, the hopelessness, the unhappiness, the annoyances, the irritations, the resentments, the sorrow, the grief, the grudges that have accumulated over time as a result of holding on the the belief that my feelings are as a result of my partners behavior.
Even though I have been blaming my partner for the way I feel I love and accept myself completely and totally and I forgive myself.
Even though I have been mean and unloving in response I love and accept myself totally and completely.
Even though I was taught to respond to other people's behavior with negative feelings, thoughts and actions I choose to love and forgive them for they did not know any better. They did not know about the Law of Attraction. They were doing what they were taught too. I remember my mum being angry with me for not being mad at her sister when she was mean to me.
Even though they taught me to feel bad, fear, worry, wallow in self pity, protect myself, move away, when unwanted behaviors are observed I love and accept myself and lovingly release and let go of this kind of response.
Even though I was taught to push hard against his unwanted behaviors, to point them out, to confront them and to fight back, to retaliate, I choose to lovingly release and let go this way of responding, for it is not serving me well. I instead choose to notice what is unwanted and to immediately focus on what I now want as a result, knowing that by LOA whatever I focus on or give my attention to always manifests.
Even though I have been producing negative feelings by my choice of focus and thoughts and then blaming him for the negative feelings and asking him to behave differently, I choose to forgive myself for I did not know any better. If I had known then what I know now I would not have done it. So I am sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.
Even though I am now deliberately coming into thought alignment with my new desires born out of unwanted situations I love and accept myself and I choose to know and understand that all is well with me as I do this and that it all works out for my highest good and expansion.
I now allow him to behave as he wants to behave in any given moment and I allow myself to feel good anyway because the LOA responds to how I am feeling in any given moment and not to how he is behaving. My new Mantra is: How I feel matters most that your behavior. I choose to pay more attention to how I feel than to your behavior.
Even though I now focus more on how I am feeling than how you, my partner are behaving I choose to feel together and grounded.
Even though how I am feeling matters more now than how my partner behaves I love and accept this new reality and I choose to feel safe and secure, steady and balanced, stable, sure-footed, self-assured, confident, loved, loving, lovable, satisfied, exhilarated and supported.
Even though coming into thought alignment with my new desires and coming into feeling alignment with my new desires is what I now practice I wish myself success in this new journey that I am undertaking, knowing that I have within me all the resources, the help, the guidance I might need at any given moment. And so be it.
"It does not matter if I have excellent excuses for the negative emotions and negative thoughts - they still equal my point of attraction". Abraham Hicks, The vortex, where the law of attraction Assembles all co-operative relationships.
I have had and have been having excellent excuses for the negative emotions and thoughts, I have experienced and have been experiencing in response to my partners behavior. As of now I am open, eager, determined to set aside all opposition and consider the idea that he is indeed not responsible for my feelings and that I have control of my feelings regardless of his behavior.
I open myself emotionally and in any other way that will be helpful to accepting the idea that the behavior of my partner is not responsible for the way I feel.
I am willing to see and be convinced that his behavior is not actually responsible for the way I feel.
I now accept that the behavior of my partner is not responsible for the way I feel.
Even though I have all along been feeling, thinking and behaving in a way that indicated that my partner's behavior is responsible for the way I feel, I choose to love and accept and forgive myself anyway. I choose to release and let go of the shame, the embarrassment and the guilt. I release and let go of the helplessness, the hopelessness, the unhappiness, the annoyances, the irritations, the resentments, the sorrow, the grief, the grudges that have accumulated over time as a result of holding on the the belief that my feelings are as a result of my partners behavior.
Even though I have been blaming my partner for the way I feel I love and accept myself completely and totally and I forgive myself.
Even though I have been mean and unloving in response I love and accept myself totally and completely.
Even though I was taught to respond to other people's behavior with negative feelings, thoughts and actions I choose to love and forgive them for they did not know any better. They did not know about the Law of Attraction. They were doing what they were taught too. I remember my mum being angry with me for not being mad at her sister when she was mean to me.
Even though they taught me to feel bad, fear, worry, wallow in self pity, protect myself, move away, when unwanted behaviors are observed I love and accept myself and lovingly release and let go of this kind of response.
Even though I was taught to push hard against his unwanted behaviors, to point them out, to confront them and to fight back, to retaliate, I choose to lovingly release and let go this way of responding, for it is not serving me well. I instead choose to notice what is unwanted and to immediately focus on what I now want as a result, knowing that by LOA whatever I focus on or give my attention to always manifests.
Even though I have been producing negative feelings by my choice of focus and thoughts and then blaming him for the negative feelings and asking him to behave differently, I choose to forgive myself for I did not know any better. If I had known then what I know now I would not have done it. So I am sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.
Even though I am now deliberately coming into thought alignment with my new desires born out of unwanted situations I love and accept myself and I choose to know and understand that all is well with me as I do this and that it all works out for my highest good and expansion.
I now allow him to behave as he wants to behave in any given moment and I allow myself to feel good anyway because the LOA responds to how I am feeling in any given moment and not to how he is behaving. My new Mantra is: How I feel matters most that your behavior. I choose to pay more attention to how I feel than to your behavior.
Even though I now focus more on how I am feeling than how you, my partner are behaving I choose to feel together and grounded.
Even though how I am feeling matters more now than how my partner behaves I love and accept this new reality and I choose to feel safe and secure, steady and balanced, stable, sure-footed, self-assured, confident, loved, loving, lovable, satisfied, exhilarated and supported.
Even though coming into thought alignment with my new desires and coming into feeling alignment with my new desires is what I now practice I wish myself success in this new journey that I am undertaking, knowing that I have within me all the resources, the help, the guidance I might need at any given moment. And so be it.
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